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You can’t fix what you don’t know

Georgia has been waiting to see you for over an hour. She has been ignoring the pain in her side for days. Initially she hoped it would just go away. There is too much else to deal with. Josh her partner lost his job last week. Her mother had a stroke 3 weeks ago. Her dad is barely coping with caring for his disabled wife. The children are going to a new school this year and Emily (9) is having trouble settling into the new class. Meanwhile Georgia was hoping for a promotion at the office. With Josh out of work they need the money and it looks like she might now need to spend her weekends helping dad to manage at home. The pain in her side has got steadily worse and now it’s disturbing her at night. She mentioned it to her friend who forced her to make this appointment. Georgia doesn’t know her doctor well. She just wants this nightmare to end. She imagines this might be a urine infection but surely that wouldn’t last this long? She doesn’t want to think about the other possibilities. She especially doesn’t want to think about the lump she found in her right breast last month. She hasn’t told Josh she was coming to the clinic today and gave a vague impression that she needed to come to this end of town to collect something for work. She doesn’t want Josh to worry even though she thinks he might have noticed her holding her side while making the children’s lunch last night. Please let it be a urine infection so that a course of antibiotics will fix it. Georgia isn’t ready to handle any more bad news. A quick visit and a prescription is all she expects.

In 2 national, nonprobability online surveys of 4510 US adults, most participants reported withholding at least 1 of 7 types of medically relevant information, especially when they disagreed with the clinician’s recommendations or misunderstood the clinician’s instructions. The most commonly reported reasons for not disclosing information included not wanting to be judged or hear how harmful their behavior is. Levy et al

The outcome doctor is up to you but it all hinges on you being able to get the picture. Georgia isn’t sure she is going to tell you any of this even though she desperately needs someone to make it alright. Will you notice? Are you set up to receive the signals?

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