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Do your words strike a discordant chord?

Most upper respiratory tract infections are caused by viruses. However saying that to a parent with a sick child doesn’t always help:

Parent 2: They think they make you feel better saying it’s a virus…but they make you feel worse

Parent 7: When they say it’s a virus, I mean what kind of virus? Just where does it come from? Parent 1: You’re none the wiser how they got it, what you can do, how long it will go on…

Parent 5: You feel you’re no further forward…you just have to accept it if they don’t explain further, I would like to know…

Parent 2: It’s an unknown thing to a doctor, they can’t pinpoint it, they don’t know really…

Parent 1: I feel a bit annoyed really because you think they’ve studied for years to learn that and I haven’t studied at all, you feel dissatisfied as if you wanted to hear something more…you just wish that everything was clean cut

Parent 4: At least if you really knew what it was then it’s easier to cope with (Group 3) Joe Kai BMJ 1996

What do you say in these circumstances?

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