He was much more willing to listen than the twenty nine year old who was only interested in his sprained ankle. The attitude that millennials consider themselves invincible might explain it. Dave on the other hand wanted a certificate for work. Bit of a headache that morning. Didn’t go to work.
So, we got talking. He coaches a local football team. Now 50 can’t keep up with the young blokes on the field. Can still drink ten pints of beer on Saturday night at the club but most other nights happy to settle for two and some nights doesn’t drink at all. He snores. His trouser size gone up to 36 for the first time ever. Feels too stiff and breathless to do any real exercise. His blood pressure is borderline though be feels well enough.
Just under 1 million Australians were born between 1962 and 1966. Even though birthdays at each decade are usually marked by a special celebration, those for 50 are often unusually large. Being fifty is a bid deal.
It is in their 50’s, for example, that most people first think of their lives in terms of how much time is left rather than how much has passed. This decade more than any other brings a major reappraisal of the direction one’s life has taken, of priorities, and, most particularly, how best to use the years that remain. NY Times
- 50 year olds are now officially “middle aged” technically ‘Generation X’.
- Retirement benefits are only going to be available when they reach 67 and the money may have to last another 20-30 years.
- At 50, many couples still have kids in the nest, with educations to be financed, teaching them to drive with attendant expenses , and, perhaps, weddings and helping with house purchase.
- They may have parents in their 70s and 80s. They are watching mum and dad and their worries about healthcare and long term care expenses.
- At 50 the majority of people are over weight or obese, the risk of hypertension begins to rise at this age, some men suffer erection dissatisfaction, many may start to have problems seeing clearly at close distances, especially when reading and working on the computer, the prevalence of hearing loss ranges from 20 to 40 percent. Things just don’t work like they used to!
Gen X has to stay healthy because in this economic climate early retirement is not an option. Within this context Dave and I began the work of focusing on his physical well being. The conversation was much more satisfying. This ‘teachable moment’ allowed us to engage in some simple strategies- reducing portion size, drinking less, taking up gentle exercise and keeping an eye on his blood pressure. Now Dave is earnest in his desire to invest in his health. That’s a good thing because at 50 one in 15 men will have heart disease by the time he is 60 one in four men will have developed that condition. Now is the time to invest. For his sake if not for the economy.
The average age of GPs in Australia is also about 50. We will make the journey together because that’s what general practice is all about. No gadget, gizmo or app was required to forge the connection, no research grant or policy. Just doing what we are trained to do.
Picture by Rene Gademann